UFS111 - 1st Reflection Topic

The love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives, or at least it sure looks that way. Besides that, to love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future. Because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is 'MY' girlfriend,boyfriend,wife,husband,son,daughter,whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.That’s all my opinion.